A friend of mine posted these questions on her facebook page. To answer I thought it would be nice to post here and invite anyone in the blogging community to participate…skip some if it feels too personal.
Favourite smell? A newborn’s skin, home baked bread and leather
Last time you cried? Two nights ago
Favourite Pizza? Mushroom
Favourite flower? Daisies
Favourite animal? Not fair because it’s equal…cat and dog
Did you go to college? Yes, university
Untie your shoes when taking them off? Sometimes
Roller coaster? Definitely NOT
Favourite ice cream? Laura Secord chocolate chip
Shorts or jeans? Jeans
What are you listening to? Lady in Satin, Billie HolidaY
13) What Christmas cds are you listening to this year? Aretha Franklin – Silent Night
Tattoos? Not yet
Hair colour ? Silver\blonde
Eye Colour? Blue
Favourite food to eat? Langoustine and rice
Favourite holiday? Easter
Beer or Wine? Organic beer
Night owl or morning? Night owl
Favourite day of the week? Sunday and it is also the day I was born in my Grandmother’s bed
Do you have a nickname? Cher, Lynn and my grandmother called me “La Grand Jaune”
Favourite season? Spring because I was born in March…a rebirth every year
Favourite place to get away? California
Missing someone? My mom (especially this time of year)
Dream vacation? Southern India, Southern Ireland, Australia and Brazil
What would you do if you won the lottery? Buy a house for both my adult children, set aside a trust fund for my grandson when he turns 25 or if he goes to college; buy a studio condo in Montreal, a cottage in Easter Townships and studio in southern India (Kerala) and another studio in California – Mendocino county.
Regrets? Yes, and have learned from them and I’ll probably come back to right them in another life
Middle name? Patricia
Go back to secondary school? Not really
Ocean or lake? Ocean
Who do you think will do This? Not sure but it is fun
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I was challenged last week to post 7 days of B&W photos, with no people or comment on Facebook. Here are the 7 days where I will describe briefly where the photo was taken.
Day 1 of 7 B & W Photos – shop on boulevard St Laurent, Mile End, Montreal, Qc.
Peering out the window, she sighs with relief. She is an observer today and doesn’t need to join the crowd across the street. All the hustle and bustle in the shops are stressful enough but to add to this, people circling around for too long to find the perfect parking spot. Heaven forbid today she is not working where she would be normally cutting through this lot to get to her bus for work! Yes, she has been bumped by a car before and the man just looked at her as if she was a vision! Last week a young woman was passing through a STOP sign and the lined area where she was crossing…it shocked her as well and she just stopped in front of the car, gave her the “mother look” and pointed to the stop sign. My oh my, what a way for her to start her work day! It actually shook her back to reality and that she must be extra careful this time of year. Not only must she watch out for ice patches or black ice, at stop signs or even traffic lights, there are always one or two cars that whip by as if she had no business crossing the road at a GREEN light!
Now the holidays should be seasoned with love, well wishes and harmony. But it is rarely so for too many. The less fortunate who may have just lost their job, expectant children wondering what Christmas morning will be like and mothers trying to make a feast with next to nothing are some realities too many are living. It is a time of year many youths say how they dread going back to school to hear their peers boast about their gifts and how they can’t wait for the novelty of that new tablet, racing sled or hockey equipment is over so they can feel more or less “normal” among their classmates.
For some may who may have a little more, the pressure is still on to balance all the gifts fairly among their children. The extra cost of food is quite astounding and certainly breaks the weekly budget for at least a month or so. How did her grandmother do this on her meagre old age pension?!
She sighs again praying silently…
(troiku)
wished upon a star
sundry degrees of joy – rise
with one’s presence
wished upon a star
feels a loving presence
warmth drapes her
sundry degrees of joy – rise
family and friends’ warm wishes
watch her grandson sleep
with one’s presence
and another and another
multiplies the presents
Today I sit thinking of my cousin who is like my kid brother. He lost his lifelong partner last Wednesday. I’m a phone call away and an hour and a half drive away but still… For now there will be children and grandchildren visiting; aunts, uncles and cousins too and friends bringing him comfort as well as a casserole or two. The busyness goes on like a whirlwind for those who grieve and then after the services it slowly stops. Let the grief truly begin. There is no right way or wrong way to mourn, nor is there an expiry date…no indeed, it stays fresh, raw and painful for the time it does…and I know he aches today and will tomorrow. His children and grandchildren will miss their mother and grandmaman who lived life with such passion. She laughed with such enthusiasm and loved with all her heart.
(American Sentence)
Walking through each empty room, he looks longingly theough his liquid blues.